Congratulations! The good news spreads quickly, and you… are going to be a godparent! But don’t worry—everything can be much simpler if you organize your steps well and take care of the details.
Shopping for the baptism is often considered a challenging task. That’s why it’s best to communicate with the parents to learn about their preferences, the style, or even the theme of the baptism. This will save you both time and money!
Here’s a list of essentials you’ll need as a godparent:
- A baptismal candle
- Two small towels for drying hands (one for yourself and one for the priest).
- A large towel for the baby.
- A sheet to protect your clothing.
- A bar of soap.
- A bottle of olive oil.
- Christening linens (oil cloths).
- Witness pins or charms (for the guests to commemorate the occasion).
- A cross for the child.
- Christening outfit and shoes.
- A box or suitcase to store all the necessary items.
However, a godparent’s responsibilities don’t end on the day of the baptism. While the ceremony is one of the most important moments, the true value lies in the years that follow.
It’s not enough to show up only at Christmas and Easter. Strive to build a lifelong bond. All relationships need care and nurturing to thrive. As a godparent, you must be there for your godchild both emotionally and physically—to share in their joys, sorrows, and concerns. Let them know they have someone they can trust.
For a child, the greatest gift is the presence and security a godparent—and, of course, their parents—can provide. Undoubtedly, this relationship is a challenging but rewarding commitment, one that must be built on solid foundations to truly succeed!